Babies are still in desperate need of parental affection. With a love that is given from parents to their baby, the baby will feel the peace. His heart is still very sensitive will be more receptive to the lessons and experience a new life when the baby feel the peace and happiness. Of course, this also will greatly affect brain development or intelligence. So what tips we as parents, so baby we met the needs of his affection and of course our hearts so that fruit could be a bright child in the future.
1. Kiss, hug, and caress.
A psychologist says that kissing, hugging, and fondling is a form of respect for the child. By doing so, he will feel very appreciated by his parents, and encourages to do something positive. Crying, is one way baby to get attention. Well ... If the need for love and attention a baby has been met, then the baby would not be easy to cry.
2. Praise
As adults, we often read motivational books or watching TV shows or seminars on motivation. Infants would not need books or watching events that smelled of motivation. But one thing is equally needed every man of any age is the motivation. In order for the baby is getting motivated to learn, give praise to what he had done. Praise is very meaningful for her to develop themselves. For example, initially played only a paper baby by squeezing-squeezed. We can say, "oh really smart mama's boy, can bikn ball of paper." With the compliments that we give and coupled with guidance from us, long the boy can certainly make crafts out of paper even better. For example create a plane, bird, and others.
3. Avoid ban
When the baby started to do things that are not good, such as littering, avoid banning child do it, We can replace them with soft words and educate. For example, "Honey .... If trash is not there. But here. It's called the trash. "If you need help you take your trash, and bring it closer to the child, so she could learn how to dispose of garbage properly. Try to bayangakan, if you just say, "Do not throw litter!" Then you own those who pick up the trash and throw it away. What lessons learned from the baby? None. Only fear.
4. Spoke in a soft voice
Although the baby has not mastered a lot of vocabulary words, never stop him talking. Of course, in a voice soft and full of expression. Try to note that smart kids have ever shown on TV, they speak with great expression and good intonation. This is very related to the teaching given by both their parents in everyday life. The voice of parents, especially the voice of a mother, is the favorite sound of your baby that would be imitated by your baby. So, should avoid words and intonation are rough, since it is not impossible if your baby will imitate.
5. Intelligent Giving Feedback
We certainly want our baby to be a bright child. So we too must become a smart parent. Not only smart in the knowledge that we can get from various media, but also intelligent in responding to the needs of children. So that we can become a smart parent in responding to the needs of children, then we need to understand the fruits of our hearts. So that we can understand what the baby needs us, and when the baby we need it, certainly need a good emotional relationship, because the baby can not speak clearly. And so the emotional connection that can be interwoven with the good, baby you really need your time with him. It is very important, so baby we can easily establish relationships with other people (social relations). Because later on lessons and experience gained from the fruit of your heart not only through their parents, but also others.
6. Being an Example
A child learning from a variety of senses. One is through the sense of sight. So be a good example of your baby. What you've been taught to be in accordance with what he saw. If you are diligent in your beds, then you also have to educate your baby to be able to maintain cleanliness.
7. The importance of adventure
Adventure in this case is certainly not by inviting the baby we go hiking or wading Ocean. But you can do in your immediate environment. It is very important for baby we not only learn from one environment only (at home), or not just walk in the mall. You can take your baby for a walk in the morning (so that your baby can feel the coolness is natural / not from the AC and get the sun's ultraviolet rays that contain vitamin D, take him to the park (to be able to recognize various kinds of plants) , asked her to follow religious events, took a swim (of course with the custody of parents), and still many more things. This is very important for your baby trained to adjust myself in all the atmosphere and weather.
8. The Educational Games
Lots of toys that we can find in stores maianan. Try to choose toys that educate, that can make children learn through the senses of sight, hearing, and taste, and speakers (to speak), so that children can have kecardasan compound through the learning of all the senses owned. In this case, is in dire need of your creative as a parent. Because with a red ball also, you can train your baby about shapes (with say, feel, and view), color (to see, hear, and pronounce it), and other benefits.
9. Read Tale
Read out the illustrated fairy tale book and colored. For the size of a baby, do not need an interesting and complicated story. Because the most important is an attractive picture, and in terms of story, you are able to make it interesting. Picture a bird could be something interesting, when spoken in an interesting way (good intonation, invite interaction, a clear voice, and the development of a good story.) For example, by asking, "Birds that fly where?" Then you can tell, "In ebuah area called Papua, there was a beautiful bird, the bird its name cendrawasi. Uh ... There's also a clever bird lho niruin voices. His name is Brother Old birds. Bird Hayoo ... what was his name? "Come on parents, develop your imagination to educate your baby.
10. Listening Murotal Quran / music
Get children to know the Koran is an obligation of a Muslim, then one way is the voice memperdengarkannya rebound Murotal Al qur'an in children. So is the music / instruments, then indirectly, rebound scripture and music can also bring positive effects for the right brain and left the baby. It would be better if the music contains moral values and education
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